BDSM is more reflective of a domination type of mindset which is not in the spirit of true love. To “take” also means to “chase” love. Going further, when one chases love, ecologically speaking in the social ecosystem you become a _predator_ . Not too different from the literal psychology of a child predator lol. Haters will deny this, but the facts speak for themselves. Between most relationships failing (I.E. birthrate crisis- which is also covered up by immigration) and the failed marriage rates it is quite clear that setting out to conquer to find love is suboptimal. It is ideal for it to happen naturally, and for the dynamics of the relationship to play out as they may. The fact BDSM is so widely popular speaks to the general predatory mindset when it comes to love that people generally take. The bedroom is by far the most revealing place psychologically speaking.
